Women Share Their Foolproof Techniques for Achieving Internal Orgasms
Every woman’s experience with pleasure is deeply personal, and what works for one person may not have the same effect for another. That’s the beauty of exploring our own bodies. We each have our own unique ways of experiencing and enjoying pleasure. While one method may work wonders for someone, it might not be the answer for someone else. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t value in sharing what we know and what works for us. In fact, learning from one another’s experiences can help us discover new paths that we might not have considered before.
In this blog post, we’re sharing candid insights from real women who have explored and refined their pleasure techniques. These responses come from our customers and followers, who’ve generously shared what works for them when it comes to achieving internal orgasms. These tried-and-true methods are personal and diverse, offering a wide range of approaches—from specific positions and hand movements to more subtle techniques. Each response holds a piece of wisdom that could help guide you on your own pleasure journey. Whether you're looking for new ways to connect with your body or seeking a fresh perspective on what might work for you, we hope these shared experiences will inspire and empower you. Keep reading—you never know, one of these might be the spark you've been looking for!
What are the foolproof positions, methods, hand movements etc, that help you orgasm internally?
“When self-pleasuring, I lay on my back. I use the bulby end of the Raven Pearl to stimulate my g-spot. I start with slow movements and use my free hand to stimulate my clit. Whenever I feel like I'm about to come from clitoral stimulation, I stop clit stimulation and put more pressure onto my g-spot. It's more like tapping my wand, the tempo is higher. Sometimes I move the wand from left to right in an upspeed tempo. I repeat this several times to build up my mood. Eventually, I climax from clit stimulation. I also repeat this several times. After a while, I am really aroused, and then I don't need clit stimulation anymore in order to orgasm from internal stimulation. When tapping on my g-spot with my Raven Pearl, I also put some light pressure on my lower abdominal muscles to let all the juices flow → ejaculating.
When having intercourse with my partner, I sit on top of him. I move very slow and I also use my fingers to stimulate my clit. Then, he speeds up the tempo. I stop clit stimulation and I totally surrender/'push it all out' → climaxing and ejaculating.
To wrap up: since most women only know how to orgasm via clit, build up the mood by stimulating both clit and g-spot. When almost climaxing, focus on the g-spot. Use more pressure or speed up tempo - or do both. And totally surrender! Lightly use the lower abdominal muscles to let it all out.”
“G-spot orgasm: (with partner and by myself) laying on my back, legs open, kinda sliding and tapping regular movements on the g-spot makes me really wet and eventually orgasm every time.
A-spot: (only with partner) laying on my belly and stimulating clitoris
Cervical: (only with partner) when I’m very, very aroused, almost in a trance-like state, doggy style, with the right penis; get there in no time.”
“No method is 100% foolproof. I need to be able to relax and feel sexy. If I'm not relaxed and too much in my head and not in my body, it will not happen.
But foolproof when I am relaxed:
Self-pleasure: slow and steady internal stimulation. Onna Wave always does it!
Sex with partner: a good sexual and personal connection, attention, and presence.
Positions: 1) me laying on my back, legs up (I'm bendy, I put them near my neck/shoulders haha), and him on top of me. 2) doggy style. I feel like these two positions stimulate me best.”
“It’s really interesting but my partner’s moves help me. It’s a missionary pose + he touches me there with his hand like kind of stretching even more. It doesn’t just feel good, to me, it feels crazy good.”
“Good access to the genitals, a comfortable position. Slow, steady movements. Not necessarily going in and out (but that works too) but rather touching the walls of the vagina or particular pleasure spots. Directly stimulating the g-spot. Adding anal stimulation. Sounding. Relaxing the jaw. And a little clitoral stimulation sometimes :)”
“Me on top, when I can 'control' everything, sometimes even without lots of movement, just when I have him inside. Sometimes there is clitoral stimulation just because of vibration or touch, but I actually prefer it if it happens the least possible. When I am extremely turned on, then from behind or missionary (but he needs to keep going quite some time)—with my hands or his hands (always works), slow circular movements, massage of the g-spot, moving in and out, and the rest what he does I don't know as I am busy enjoying.”
“This is a recent thing for me but it seems to be firm pressure and a slight rolling motion. Almost like I was doing a fingerprint.”
“I have imaginative scenarios that help, mostly anal fantasy lately. Anal finger stimulation sometimes. I also like nipple stimulation after a degree of tension is built. Doggy style, sitting on the lap is mostly good for me, legs on his shoulders work too.”
“Often if I'm on top and I can move and find the spot myself, then I can definitely 'find' the orgasm. I can also direct my partner from missionary. I have a harder time in other positions as I get some pain and it makes it harder to relax.”
“My favorite at the moment: cowgirl, where he has his knees up a bit. And I can position my hips for the perfect position. A combination of faster and slower movement, deep breathing (into my belly or womb). Being totally present, my partner as well.”
“G-spot stimulating wand + clitoral stimulation, or anal play + clitoral stimulation. Rocking fast.”
“I need to lay down, belly up in order to do so. Pushing with finger on the bottom part of the belly also enhances the sensation. I need to either go deep and slow at first and faster later (for cervical/A-spot orgasm), or ‘strong’ on the G-point for a G-spot orgasm. The DROP helps with that :) I can also if I am sitting on my partner, while she is laying down, but takes more effort.”
“When self-pleasuring, I need to rub the clitoris with my hand and use a dildo or fingers (I need to be on top so that I can move my pelvis and help myself) to get the cervix orgasm or the g-spot one (this last one with fingers only in the entrance of the vagina). Other times when it is only with a vibrator on the clitoris, I lay on my back and focus on controlling the pelvic muscles. When I orgasm with a partner, I am on top of him. I either move myself onto his pelvic bone or he moves me if I get exhausted. And depending on how aroused I am, I have to activate the clitoris with extra moving or already feel in my g-spot or cervix area. This is the only position I have been able to orgasm with penetration. The other one is on my belly with anal, and in that case, I have to rub my clitoris and control pelvic floor.”
“Slow, firm, and consistent stimulation on the g-spot, either with two fingers or, ideally, with a more full penetration, either with the thicker side of the Wave or with a partner. When using the Wave, I usually start with the thinner side and then move into the thicker.”
“Foolproof positions are with my legs draped over my male partner’s forearms so my butt is raised while penetrating me. Another position is me on top (of my male partner), leaning back slightly. Me on all fours works well too. Hand positions are a slightly curved finger from my partner with his palm facing up. Hand position with myself is a cupping of my hand to insert fingers into my vagina.”
“It’s the missionary only for me.”
“Missionary, being very aroused, being very patient, and feeling so relaxed. Slow and strong movements with my hands, feeling my insides very wet and swollen helps a lot.”
“Four fingers banging me inside, My legs on his shoulders. Also like it from the back but sometimes hurts my asshole after a while of rougher sex.”
“I need a calm, relaxed area and a safe place to let go. Time, and the need to do so. While self-pleasure I like to first give myself a yoni massage with the Onna curve to release tension (I used to have vaginismus when I was a young adult) later go deeper, inside, stimulate. Sometimes I like to take a vibrator too, to stimulate my clitoris too, for example. But it really depends on my mood, it’s difficult to say; that's the way to go. With a partner; the environment; as I described in the beginning. It's the most important thing to me. Then there are also some very good positions to stimulate the inner parts of the vagina too. I think I’m a passion pursuer and I kind of like the spiritual experience in very intense orgasm.”
“With a partner, I had my first when I was on the top and in charge of the pace. Otherwise, I think it might be more about the work I do mentally, focusing on what I do, what are the sensations, and not allowing any other thoughts to disturb me.”
“Missionary with legs pulled towards my shoulders, and being really turned on.”
“Missionary where my partner goes in deep (or in a specific angle at least). For example, when I lift my butt a little bit. It also helps to tense the muscles in my vagina, which makes me have more contact with my partner. What I love about that specifically is that it also feels super nice for my partner as well and we can climax together. The speed is less important to me, it's mostly touching the right nerves at the right moment I guess.”
