DO MEN ENJOY ANAL PLAY?
Nope, we are not talking about men penetrating someone else's butt. We are talking about men having their butts played with and stimulated.
There is so much confusion and controversy surrounding anal sex, and the topic can be shameful for many men. The most common myth is that only gay men enjoy anal play. The fact is that anal play or sex is enjoyable for anyone, regardless of gender. All butts are the same. The anus and the rectum are one of the most innervated parts of the body, which means it can be a site of pleasure for many people. In cisgender men and people assigned male at birth, anal penetration can stimulate the prostate and lead to powerful orgasms that are more intense than penile orgasms.
We asked our male followers to find out if they enjoy anal play. Do they enjoy having your butt touched/licked/penetrated? Their answers might surprise you.
"Yes ! Prostate play is the best."
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"Since a few months we started with anal play. First, just touching. It felt awesome, so now and then we go a little bit further with some penetration. A whole new intimate world opened for me. I like it."
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"Yes, but I struggle with telling it to my partner, never been licked or penetrated. As for touching only with self pleasure."
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"I love it and have no problem admitting it. I absolutely love when my wife goes down on me and moves lower to give me a rim job at the same time. We recently got the Drop, and honestly, it is something else. It is better than a finger or any other toy we tried. Prostate orgasms with the Drop are amazing, and I’m glad I discovered this, unlike many of my friends who would never let anyone go near their butts."
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"I am open but my wife does not like it."
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"Anal play is very sacred for men. The first time my partner touched my butt, I could not control myself and came. I ended up very angry to her as if it was her fault. I enjoyed it but of course I could not ask her to repeat it. :) Later in time, with different partners as they tend to go down I did not protest. I like my butt touched and licked also prostate massage but I am straight and I am not into penetration. "
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"Yes. Yes PLEASE! And yes, butt be gentle… "
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"I am only open to penetration but with a toy, by a woman."
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" I am more than open to all anal play. Ive always fantasized about being licked there, never had that done. Finger only once, and teasing there feels amazing. Pegging is a fantasy too but idk how to make it happen. I think its a pleasure zone we men have that we need to try and destigmatize. But not every woman is into it too, and it takes both being open."
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"Yes, I am very open to anal play. We have prostates, too! "
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"Yes… yes… and yes! I do my own anal play (with your toy!) and if I ever have the opportunity to have my butt touched, fingered and licked… I never refuse!."
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"I never was and I still have some resistance around this. Societal conditioning - but I started to explore this myself recently (the last few years) and it offers so much pleasure. I'm now far more open about it and becoming more so - although haven't directly asked for more of it yet. The feeling of being licked is so pleasurable and hugely vulnerable - it carries shame around desiring it. "
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"I don't know. I feel uncomfortable with that now, butt (see what I did there lol) I've never had a partner want to do that to me so far. I might be open to it. "
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"Touched yes, penetrated oh yes, and licked no (but I like to lick, why don't I like being licked? I don't know.)"
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" Yep, I love it when my gf does it to me."
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"Yes, absolutely."
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"Yes I really enjoy it. Pegging especially. Gave me so much appreciation for being on the receiving end. I could imagine what it’s like but the actual experience of it is a quite profound shift. "
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" No. (Not yet)"
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"No, but I accept it as a valid kink that others enjoy. No shame given from me!"
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" I love having my butt and anus touched and licked and have been penetrated by butt plugs and small dildoes (during masturbation) or girlfriend’s fingers. We are looking forward to me getting pegged by my girlfriend but having a 2yo child makes it difficult to find the right time for elaborate scenarios. "
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"Open to try anything once :)"
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"Yes, I haven’t so far, but I’m open to anything once. You don’t know until you try. Finding the person to trust to perform it with is the hard part, not the trying."
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ONNA RIMMING GUIDE
PROSTATE MASSAGE GUIDE
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