Awakening Your Cervix: A Deep, Transformational Guide to Using the Onna Awaken Cervix Wand
A Journey into Sensitivity, Release, and Embodied Pleasure
If you’ve ever experienced vaginal numbness, tension, or discomfort during intimacy, self-pleasure, or even in daily life, you are not alone. Many women unknowingly hold emotions, past trauma, and stress within the pelvic floor. Over time, these stored tensions can manifest as discomfort, disconnection, or a numbing of sensation.
The Onna Awaken Cervix Wand is specifically designed to help you soften, release, and awaken your inner landscape, making space for enhanced pleasure, sensitivity, and full-bodied orgasms. Whether you're engaging in yoni dearmouring, cervix awakening, or G-spot activation, this guide will take you through a comprehensive, step-by-step practice to help you reconnect with your body and unlock your full pleasure potential.
Why Use a Glass Wand for Cervix Awakening & Yoni Dearmoring?
Your pelvic floor muscles and vaginal tissues store deep-seated emotions. Stress, sadness, trauma, and even daily frustrations can accumulate in these sensitive areas, often without conscious awareness. Just as a deep tissue massage can relieve knots and tension in the shoulders, internal dearmoring can dissolve tension within the vagina, restoring sensation, pleasure, and vitality.
The Onna Awaken Cervix Wand is crafted from smooth, high-quality borosilicate glass, offering precise, intentional pressure to targeted areas of tension. Unlike flexible silicone toys, the firm structure of glass wands ensures deep release and focused massage exactly where your body needs it most.
This wand is ergonomically designed to reach the cervix while remaining easy to hold and maneuver. The bulbous end is ideal for G-spot stimulation, while the long, slim end provides the perfect tool for gentle but effective cervical activation.
Are you ready to embark on your journey of awakening, releasing, and expanding pleasure? Let’s begin.
Step-by-Step Guide to Using the Onna Awaken Cervix Wand
Step 1: Cleanse & Set Your Intentions
Before using your wand, wash it thoroughly with warm, soapy water to ensure cleanliness. Running the wand under warm water also allows the glass to retain gentle heat, making insertion more inviting and comfortable.
Take a moment to set an intention for your practice. Do you wish to release stored emotions? Open yourself to deeper pleasure? Cultivate a stronger connection to your femininity? Hold this intention in your heart or speak it aloud before you begin.
Step 2: Create a Safe & Comfortable Space
Find a quiet, private sanctuary where you feel fully at ease. Lay down on a comfortable surface—a bed, a yoga mat, or a plush blanket—supported by pillows, cushions, and any items that create a sense of safety. If you’re using oil or lubricant, keep it within reach.
Dim the lights, play soothing music, and allow yourself to fully relax. This is a sacred space for self-exploration, healing, and pleasure.
Step 3: Prepare Your Body with Yoni Breathing
Before inserting the wand, begin with deep belly breathing into the vagina to gently soften and relax your pelvic floor.
Inhale deeply through your nose, allowing your belly to expand fully and your breath to travel down toward your pelvic region. Feel your lower abdomen and vaginal walls gently opening with each breath.
Exhale slowly through your mouth, releasing any tension as you visualize your vaginal muscles softening and relaxing. Let each breath create a sense of spaciousness and ease within your body.
Repeat this process four to five times, consciously relaxing your jaw, shoulders, and inner thighs, as these areas are deeply interconnected with pelvic tension. Allow yourself to fully arrive in your body before continuing.
Step 4: Gently Introduce the Wand & Begin Dearmouring
Once you feel fully relaxed and present, take a moment to connect with your yoni. Place a hand over your lower abdomen or perineum, breathe deeply, and gently ask her if she feels ready to receive the wand. This check-in is an act of self-honouring—trust whatever answer arises. If you sense a ‘yes,’ proceed with care, softly inserting the slimmer end of the wand. Use a natural lubricant if you have to.
This practice helps identify and release areas of stored tension, restoring natural sensitivity and energetic flow. Imagine your vaginal canal as the face of a clock, with 12 o’clock positioned at the top (toward the navel) and 6 o’clock at the bottom (toward the perineum). Moving with patience and awareness, apply gentle pressure at each point:
- 12 o’clock – Press lightly against the upper vaginal wall, near the bladder. This area may hold tension related to stress or emotional suppression.
- 3 o’clock – Explore the right side of the vaginal canal. Notice if there are any tender or numb spots, and meet them with breath and soft presence.
- 6 o’clock – Apply gentle pressure to the lower vaginal wall, near the perineum. This area often holds deep-seated tension from posture, birth, or stored emotions.
- 9 o’clock – Work with the left side of the vaginal canal, again bringing curiosity to any sensations that arise.
To keep the practice gentle and prevent overwhelm, start by working with these points at a shallow depth first. This allows your body to gradually adjust and release tension layer by layer. With regular practice, you can begin exploring deeper areas, moving through the clock positions again at different depths. This approach ensures that your body feels safe and supported throughout the process.
At each point, hold gentle pressure for at least four slow, intentional breaths. As you breathe, visualize tension softening, dissolving, or shifting. If emotions, sensations, or memories surface, acknowledge them with compassion—this is your body’s way of releasing what it no longer needs. There’s no need to force anything; simply being present with whatever arises is enough.
If you encounter discomfort, approach it with kindness. Breathe into the area, relax your jaw, and remind yourself that you are safe. If numbness is present, be patient—numbness is simply stored tension, and with regular practice, sensation will gradually return.
This is a journey of trust, healing, and deep self-listening. Each session is an opportunity to reconnect with your body’s wisdom, offering yourself the presence and care you deserve.
Step 5: Express, Release, and Let Go
As you dearmour, allow yourself to express any emotions that surface without judgment or hesitation.
If tears arise, let them flow freely, acknowledging the emotions they carry. If anger stirs within, give it a voice—sigh, groan, or release a deep, primal sound to let it move through you. If pleasure awakens, do not hold back; breathe into it, allow it to expand, and embrace the sensations fully.
Your pelvic floor holds years of unspoken emotions, memories, and tensions. This is a sacred opportunity to release, soften, and create space for renewed vitality and deeper connection to yourself. Let your body guide you, trust the process, and know that every release brings you closer to your true essence.
Step 6: Explore the G-Spot with the Bulbous End
Now, switch to the bulbous end of the wand to explore deeper G-spot activation and heightened pleasure. If you need help with locating your G-spot and its anatomy, this guide will show you how.
Position the bulbous tip against your upper vaginal wall, about one to two inches inside. This region, rich in nerve endings, responds well to intentional, varied stimulation. Begin by applying gentle pressure and observe how your body reacts.
Experiment with different motions to enhance sensitivity and pleasure:
Firm, slow strokes to awaken sensation and gradually build arousal.
Pulsing movements to create rhythmic waves of stimulation.
Circular motions to explore how your body responds to a more dynamic touch.
Vary the intensity by applying different levels of pressure, from soft and exploratory to firm and grounding. Let your body guide you—there is no right or wrong way to engage with this practice.
This area is highly responsive, and stimulating it may lead to deep pleasure, emotional release, or even female ejaculation. If emotions arise, allow them to move through you. Pleasure and release are intertwined, offering a profound opportunity for healing and self-discovery.
Step 7: Awakening the Cervix
Once your vaginal canal feels more open, shift your focus to the cervix, a deeply sensitive and powerful structure that serves as the gateway to deep sensation, emotional connection, and expanded pleasure. The cervix is intimately connected to the vagus nerve, which runs from the brainstem down through the heart and into the cervix. This connection means that cervical stimulation can trigger profound, full-body sensations, deep emotional release, and even spiritual awakenings. The cervix is not just a physical structure—it is a center of wisdom, transformation, and energy that, when engaged with care and intention, can unlock new levels of pleasure and healing.
Slowly press the wand against your cervix, applying gentle, steady pressure. Begin by observing how your body responds. Does it welcome the sensation, or does it feel tender or resistant? There is no rush—honor the pace at which your body is willing to open.
Experiment with different techniques to awaken and sensitize your cervix:
Light tapping or pulsing movements to gradually build responsiveness.
Slow, circular motions to stimulate the nerve endings and encourage deeper sensation.
Holding the wand still and breathing deeply to allow a profound connection to emerge.
Your cervix is a powerful pleasure center, rich with untapped potential. However, awakening may take time. Some may feel immediate sensation, while others may first experience numbness or tenderness. Trust the process, be patient, and allow your body to unfold naturally. Over time, as tension dissolves, your cervix may become a source of profound pleasure, expansion, and emotional release.
Step 8: Closing the Practice with Gratitude
When you feel that your journey with the wand has reached a natural conclusion, slowly and mindfully remove it, giving your body a moment to integrate the sensations and shifts that have taken place. Take a moment to pause, placing both hands gently over your yoni, cradling yourself with care and reverence. Let this be a moment of gratitude for the deep connection you have fostered with your body.
Close your eyes and take slow, intentional breaths. Place one hand on your womb space and the other on your heart, feeling the warmth and rhythm of your own energy. As you breathe deeply, imagine a gentle flow of love and appreciation moving between these two sacred centers. Let this connection ground you, reminding you of the profound wisdom and pleasure that reside within you.
Embracing Your Path to Deep Pleasure & Connection
By incorporating the Onna Awaken Cervix Wand into your practice, you are choosing to reconnect with your body in a profound and intentional way. This journey is about more than just physical sensation—it is an opportunity to release deep-seated emotions, dissolve tension, and restore your natural flow of pleasure and vitality.
Through patience and self-awareness, you are creating space for greater sensitivity, deeper intimacy with yourself, and a heightened sense of self-love. This practice is not only a path to healing but also a celebration of your body’s innate wisdom and ability to experience pleasure.
Your pleasure is a natural and essential part of your being. Your body is sacred. Trust in your journey, explore at your own pace, and allow yourself to fully embrace the richness of your sensations and emotions.
